Broken and lost, heading for a divorce

My  husband and kids father and I  had a very bad break up. Is it over?? I have had so much pain already in life. How will I handle it if that's the case. I have no family, no one, to help m

I understand and empathize with your pain. However if you go through each day putting 1 foot in front of the other going to the motions of what it takes to reach a new happiness and a new you, something amazing is going to happen. You will find yourself without him and although you have been so attached to him, your own self-worth will become more important than your sacrificing yourself to a man who was too selfish to give the love to you and your family that you deserve.

This is a time of painful growth. When things break apart so that something new can spring into your life. It is going to take some healing and you must allow yourself to feel the pain and go through the healing so you can come out on the other side and be open to something better.

What this means is learning how to care for yourself better to do things for yourself instead of him find ways to improve your health find a new social group for other parents with children are involved, and possibly start looking on dating sites for men who have children themselves.

I know that you feel you're not ready to date but once your ex husband sees  all these changes and that you are caring for you he will start to show you and your family more respect.

What I see in him is a restless soul filled with wanderlust and, unfortunately, I sense there's another woman involved here.

Yes you were broken at the moment and it will take time to heal but you will heal.

I know you want him back and if it's absolutely without a doubt you cannot live without him there is a possibility of bringing him back. But first you must make yourself number one and start doing things to take care of yourself instead of everyone else.

Also make sure that you get child support from him. Do not try and please him by letting him off on his responsibilities with the child.

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