How do I get my ex to return my calls?
Is there something you could do or say that would compel your ex to return your calls. Have you tried and tried to leave phone and text messages only to have them ignored. Is there some mystical technique, some magic words that will have your ex happy to return your calls?
Actually there are words that will seem as if you have cast a spell that will have a profound effect on not only having your ex return your calls, but doing so with an attitude of warmth and acceptance.
Amazing, but it's true.
I'm going to tell you this, and you are going to be surprised. Not only are the results, but because it is so amazingly simple.
Getting your calls returned will not be enough to win your ex back without a complete preplanned strategy.
Doing this without a plan of action when they do return your calls to put you back to square one.
So you must have a strategy.
But first, you need to know what NOT to say.
Here are the approaches that NEVER work.
Do not leave a message that sounds like an emergency.
" Dave something awful has happened. Please call me as soon as you get this.".
Do not plead with them over voicemail or text.
" Beth, I've been trying to contact you, please, please, I have to talk to you."..
Neither of these approaches are going to receive a positive response for obvious reasons.
However, far too often, this is just the sort of message, a jilted lover will leave in desperation.
There is a much better way to get their attention and turn their attitude towards you from annoyance to positive.
You use the powerful psychological advantage of invoking their curiosity and vanity.
When you use these to together, curiosity, and vanity. You will have discovered the magic formula that will catch your ex's attention in a positive way. This one works just about every time.
Here is what you say.
In a friendly tone of voice:
" Hi Dave, it's Lisa. I wanted to know how much I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I'd like to thank you in person."
Do you see how this uses both curiosity and vanity?
Dave will be wondering "What did I do that she appreciate so much". And he feels good about himself because it's a positive message letting him know that you appreciate him.
It is the greatest desire of every person to be appreciated. So many relationships fall apart because rather than pointing out the good things that we appreciate about our partner, far too often we point out in negative things we want them to change. Rarely does a negative comment ever come to positive result.
Therefore, we are changing the dynamics of your communications with your ex from negative to positive, and stroking their vanity.
When a person feels appreciated here more generous with their emotions and love towards the one who is showing them in appreciation.
Before you make this call, you need to figure out what he or she did that you appreciate.
It can be anything, even something small, but it needs to be believable.
You also must have a strategy planned out before you call.
If you make this call no preplanned strategy and they call you back. This can do more harm than good.
It must be handled properly.
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Here's to bringing your love back into your life.
Joan Marie Lawson
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