My BF is driving me crazy with his mixed signals. We spend a lot of fun time together and just as we seem to be getting closer in our relationship, he suddenly shuts down and says he needs some time alone. I am always disappointed as I get my hopes up that the relationship is finally going towards commitment, but he suddenly acts like he is afraid and does not want to see or even talk to me until I have given up and left him alone. Then he comes back and we start all over again until we get really close and intimate and bam he pulls away again. Why does he do this? am I doing something wrong?
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This is often a difficult and most painful sign that your ex wants some space.
Here is a question I see often in my free psychic reading email.
My boyfriend and I recently broke up because he said didn't feel he was in love with me anymore and didn't see a long term future together. We have still being seeing each other occasionally and he is still very loving and affectionate towards me.We are still having sex. Does he think he has made a mistake and will he change his mind about us? Please give me your psychic advice as to what I should do.
As a professional psychic I have heard a lot of relationship issues from both men and women.. One of these is in maintaining the masculine/feminine balance between men and women in careers in which they must be extremely aggressive.
You may be a bit strong in business and that is a really good thing for a woman. But appearing too strong in relationships with men, takes away from their masculinity and they naturally avoid women who are stronger than them. What works in business does not work in relationships
Pursing a man takes away his need to chase you and win you over. A man can really admire you for what you have accomplished, but if you pursue him like you would a business situation, chances are he will run the other way...
OK, you have tried calling, texting and emailing. Yet you are being avoided, or worse given lame excuses..Now it is time for desperate measures. OK, well first STOP CALLING!!!!! Do NOT TRY TO CONTACT THEM. It is not working.This will only make you look needy and you will be avoided more and for a longer time.The way to get back into a lovers heart is through their emotions.. That is right by putting a thought into their head reminding them of the good things you two had between you two.
Unfortunately nature played a cruel trick on us in order to get us to reproduce and stay with a family. When we fall in love we become "attached" to a person our brain creates chemicals that give us a "high" like a chemical reward for being with this person. Our brain becomes flooded with "love" chemicals. In brain scans these chemicals work on the part of the brain, in the exact same way, as a cocaine addicts does when they are on their favorite drug ( cocaine). Hence, we actually become addicted to that person. When that person pulls away, our brains stop producing these chemicals and we go through an actual chemical withdrawal.
Is there something you could do or say that would compel your ex to return your calls. Have you tried and tried to leave phone and text messages only to have them ignored. Is there some mystical technique, some magic words that will have your ex happy to return your calls?
Actually there are words that will seem as if you have cast a spell that will have a profound effect on not only having your ex return your calls, but doing so with an attitude of warmth and acceptance.
Amazing, but it's true.
I'm going to tell you this, and you are going to be surprised. Not only are the results, but because it is so amazingly simple.
Getting your calls returned will not be enough to win your ex back without a complete preplanned strategy.
Doing this without a plan of action when they do return your calls to put you back to square one.
So you must have a strategy.
But first, you need to know what NOT to say.
I get this question a lot in my free psychic reading email questions.
Here is the problem. Not everything is about fate. We have choices in life and as a result in many cases, the future is not formed yet.
Yes, I know you expect me to see into the future and in many cases I can. But in this case, love is not always a matter of fate.
you were given free will so you could make choices. There are strong probabilities as to who will cross your path and that can be seen by a good psychic.
but the ultimate choice is yours. Destiny is a potential, not a promise...
So Hun, it is best to use your time time to focus on learning to flirt and experiment with dating over time, so you can make the right choices in finding and attracting the right partner.
The problem with mamas boys is that they come across as wonderful, sweet guys at first.
Then you start to find out his mom is always going to be number one and you will have to take a back seat.
Mamas boys never severed their childhood attachment with their mothers. They are constantly trying to please her, fear angering her and have an emotional dependency that is just plain unhealthy.
Their mothers will often criticize any woman they are with and can be more jealous than a lover. There is a sick inter-dependency between son and mother and the woman in his life is just there for sex, but his mama will always be his one true love.