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Is he the one?

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I'm sure you get these in your free psychi questions all the time. Women who beg for you to help figure out their life problems. Well to be honest, I don't want you to figure out all of my problems.just one. You see, I've had my run with love a few times, but never got it right. Can you tell me, am I with the one who is right for me, or is he still out there? Its really important for me to find out. I don't want to waste my life. So please, help.

Answer. If you are still young, then often your partners are not completely mature when it comes to relationships, is not as much as you being with the one, but being with the one who is ready.

He pulled away when I asked if I was his girlfriend

I find a lot there is a lot of confusion in trying to establish the status of a relativity new relationship in my free psychic question email..
If you are confused, you may ask Joan for more advice in your free psychic reading

Question
I was seeing a guy casually for about a year. I finally brought up that the whole, "what were we?" and soon after, he disappeared--which was confusing.

He has come back around lately, and I saw him Friday night. And ever since, I am feeling anxious and weird about it..and don't know why.

So, I guess, my question is: what will happen with us? Was that the last time I'll see him? is that why i feel so weird right now?

Why is it so difficult to breakup?

Even when a relationship is bad it can be hard to let go. I get a LOT of questions about how to deal with breakups in my free psychic question, free psychic reading email.

The issues are twofold. First, nature created a chemical attachment to our partners so we are literally "addicted" to our them. Tise is so we will still feel responsible to the person who before birth control, would be the parent and provider to our children, hence encouraging the health and well being of families. The second is that we have connection through our life force , Or Chi, or energy bodies that makes us " feel them" even when they are not around. I find that this is often stronger in women although men however, do feel it. They are just sometimes less in tune with their emotions.

Never fear women, there is a way to connect to your ex using this life force and his emotions ( if you want him back) and because he is often an emotional idiot , he will be even more acceptable.

I told him I was giving him some space until he is ready to commit

When you communicate do not ask him if he is ready to commit. Do not mention the relationship at all. simply make small talk about what he is doing in his life and what you are doing in yours, accomplishments at work etc.

He needs to feel safe in communication with you and not guilty nor feel any pressure. This way he will remember how comfortable it was to talk to you and he will start to miss you.
From there, do not expect him to request to see you, this will take time.
You must actually put yourself in the mindset that you will move on and start dating in a couple of months. The logic behind this is that if he senses that you are moving on and that he might loose you for good, he will have to be ready to commit to get you back.

If he does not and trued to make thinsg the "whay they were" without a commitment, state your case clearly and refuse to become intimate with him, walk away until he does commit.

We were so close for three months, now he pulls away

Relationships develop in stages. In the first three months you are in the infatuation stage, or the honeymoon stage when everything looks rosy and you both are focusing on the good things about each other.

After about three months you both may notice those little things that may be questionable or annoying about each other. This is when some decide if you want to continue on with this relationship or not.

I find that most romantic relationships tend to face some change every three months. This is when a new cycle starts and an old one ends.
The cycles in relationships run like this.

My relationships start out well, but something always goes wrong

I get a lot of " things started off so well then went wrong" questions in my free psychic reading email. Here is a brief explanation of why this happens due to the stages in relationships.

Question
My question has to do with relationship. I have not been completely happy with any of my relationships. Every guy that I do meet starts off well then comes the disconnect. Currently I am in a relationship, part of me feel like he needs to get himself together and he may not be really into me as much. Because of this I tend to loose interest and feel like it is a waste of time. What do you see for me in the relationship department and who is the man I will eventually marry?

How do I get him to commit to me?

Many guys are going to balk at the first sign of your needing a commitment. Particularly if you push him for one. This puts a lot of women in a difficult position. What to do when you really want one ?

Well first of all he is going to see you as more desirable if you are not so easy for him to have. He must work for it. He WANTS to have to work for it. He needs the excitement of a chase.

But how do you get him to the point where he wants to work for it?

Through his emotions. You start by making him feel special. You find things that flatter him, things that you actually like about him. That's right girls, the way to a mans heart is through his ego. If you let him know what is special about him without actually pursuing him, he will want to spend more time with you.

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