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Reunited with an old love but he is being difficult, grumpy and pulls away

Question.
I reunited with an old love. We had been apart 18 yrs. I came to Florida for a visit and looked him up. Then I went back north. We stayed in touch until I moved here last year. It started great, then it has gone back and forth. Mostly because of him pulling away, or snapping at and being critical of me. Sometimes he just becomes irate and pushes me away.The past 18 months have not been easy. Recently he has been trying and I also see more effort with him wanting to spend more time with me. I noticed the change when a month ago I told him I can not keep up the way it is. We are so good when together, we connect in many ways. I love him deeply.
What do I do to make things better?

Can I have a romantic future with my friend with benefits?

Question
I have known this guy for a year now just as a friend. Back in march we decided to be friends with benefits. I want more but don't think he does and I am scared if I ask him what he wants I will lose him all together. So my question to you is what do you see between us staying just friends and at one point it stopping and we go on in life or it becoming a relationship and when you see either coming about?

Love as an action

I like the concept of love as an action. Anyone can feel, but to show and express love in small ways is the best way to become successful in love.
Showing love in the simple art of expressing appreciation when another does something considerate, is a big part of maintaining a healthy relationship. It is my belief that the greatest desire of any human being is to be appreciated.
I feel that love as a action is to understand that no one is perfect and forgive the small flaws we all have while paying attention to the positive side of another.
We all have issues, but love is focusing on the good and kindly ignoring the shortcomings that may never change. Even loving one because of their shortcomings as something that makes one endearing.
Love as an action is cooking that extra special meal. It is giving your love space when he has had a hard day and needs it.

He was really into me and then he just pulled away

I get a lot of questions about men who chase a girl and then pull away once he has her, in my free psychic question email. Here is the question and my response;

Question;
I was with this guy who chased my like crazy, He called and texed me every day. He was jelaous of every guy I talked to, he even talked of marriage. Then once I was comfortable in the relationship, he suddenly pulled back. He said he needs his space. What happened?

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