Here is another one from my free psychic question email
Message: Hello I’ve been having major problems with my
ex . I love him a lot and would personally like to get back with him. I feel that he is the one for me and he says that he loves me still, just does not want to be with me.
My question is how could I possibly change that? We have been friends for a while and I really want him back in my life romantically. Thank you in advance!
Answer;
First of all you must not appear to pursue him. When you call or text to guy first, or ask him for the relationship,
he loses the thrill of the chase and loses interest in a relationship. So you must carry yourself with more confidence
and less pursuit. Instead talk about other guys you are interested in, listen to him and be supportive of his interests as a friend.
Revert back to the mode when you were friends so you two can hit the reset button and he can remember what great times you had together.
Change the tone of your voice to something much softer and gentler when you communicate with him. He is seeing you as the masculine party when you try to take control of the situation and this kills any attraction he may have felt for you.
I know it sounds strange, but these few things will help him to show more of an interest in you.
I also sense third-party interference in this situation. But that can change if he sees you as someone
more confident and independent, more exciting and someone he has to pursue.