Soulties & Soulmates and why they sometimes change

I was wondering if my relationship with my oldest child’s father is consider a soul tie or if I am hold on to nothing.

I get a LOT of questions about soul ties/ soul mates in my free psychic question/ free psychic reading mail. This is a very misunderstood concept. I hope my answer below can clarify these connections we have in our lives.
We have many soul ties in our life. Sometimes there are in our lives only for a short while so we and they can grow in some way. It can be painful, but there were there for a reason. The trick is learning when to move on, even though it is difficult to let go..
This way we can make room in our lives for the next soul tie who also will be there for a reason.
We do not always have just one partner of love in our lives. as much as we would like it to be that way, it is rarely the case. Some last longer than others, some last a lifetime. But they also pass on be it in body, or just in terms of their physical presence in our lives for a time period that is less than we would like it to be.
We are on this earth to grow , evolve and adapt. It can be painful, but it is a part of the process that our souls need to go through to reach a higher awareness.
so the answer to your question is that it is time to let go of him and yes it is painful but prepare yourself to move on to the next love. Yes, I know it is scary and yes there will be another one. Change can be very frightening as well as the unknown element of what the future will bring and the fear of being alone. But if you embrace change, face your fear ( and yes , you will still be afraid, for awhile) Then you will be able to move on much more quickly and easily and love will come into your life sooner than expected